Porn will kill a guys attraction to normal looking women. I have no idea why people act like its a good thing to watch it.
It literally trains your brain to constantly need more dopamine. So sure, maybe now its soft stuff, but that will not be enough in six months. Thats how it works.
I’ve never had a problem being attracted to normal women. For me what it kills is my tolerance for being shot down. Like if I don’t expect they’ll reciprocate my advances I’m not going to bother. It’s nice because it also means I’m not doing a bunch of shit I don’t really want to do in the first place in the hopes of a minimal chance of getting laid. I’ll hang out with women I think are cool and If someone I like comes onto me I’m happy to oblige them but otherwise I’m content to mind my own business and just do whatever else I want. No need to bring sex into it if they’re not hyped about it anyway.
Tbh. Even when we dated ( 18 yrs ago ) he watched that soft stuff. He hated to see fake boobs, fake lips, blowjobs, more than 1 on 1 , anal,… And still doos.
That is not the reason he doos not gets ‘a fun guy’
Porn will kill a guys attraction to normal looking women. I have no idea why people act like its a good thing to watch it.
It literally trains your brain to constantly need more dopamine. So sure, maybe now its soft stuff, but that will not be enough in six months. Thats how it works.
I’ve never had a problem being attracted to normal women. For me what it kills is my tolerance for being shot down. Like if I don’t expect they’ll reciprocate my advances I’m not going to bother. It’s nice because it also means I’m not doing a bunch of shit I don’t really want to do in the first place in the hopes of a minimal chance of getting laid. I’ll hang out with women I think are cool and If someone I like comes onto me I’m happy to oblige them but otherwise I’m content to mind my own business and just do whatever else I want. No need to bring sex into it if they’re not hyped about it anyway.
Tbh. Even when we dated ( 18 yrs ago ) he watched that soft stuff. He hated to see fake boobs, fake lips, blowjobs, more than 1 on 1 , anal,… And still doos.
That is not the reason he doos not gets ‘a fun guy’