To each other. For safety. On the premise that not all men are creepy rapey shit heads, most of that is done by just a few predatory assholes, and you can just cut out the bad ones.
Which, lol.
Edit: next time you want a woman to not assume you’re a creep, ask how she’d know. This isn’t the solution id choose, but it was a solution. Ask if you’re really worth rolling a 6 sided dice every time youre alone with a guy, abd on a 2 or a 3 being treated so disgustingly you need a shower, on a 1 being raped or murdered. I’m sorry, but you aren’t worth that.
The women who go on there clearly do it not out of spite for men but because the system is clearly not sufficiently ensuring their safety. I’m not saying it’s a good solution but idk why the internet is so enthusiastic about women who likely had bad experiences (including r*pe) being doxxed and calling it karma…
Not say sex offender registry is enough, only that other way and already exist. Need someone get rape, then report to police and win trial until in registry (if i understand correct). Far too high bar, much mental health required, need talk about what happen, not easy.
Lemmy at least has a misogyny problem and is openly hostile to women. I don’t know how common that is to the Internet itself these days but it doesn’t seem like a good sign, even once you accept that Lemmy specifically recruited Redditors.
I’ve been noticing more of this recently and it doesn’t encourage me to spend too much time here. There are so many posts that I don’t even open the comment section because I know it’s going to be a disaster and make me feel like I’m intruding on the boys’ online clubhouse.
This case is odd. It’s not some authority; it’s a comnunity sharing information for theur own protection, a formalized gossip network of threat identification.
Not a perfect solution, not how I’d hanfle it, but the alternative is just assuming every man is a piece of shit.
I just dont date men, don’t smile around men unless it’s mean or im wearing a mask, don’t compliment men even on innocuous things unless they’re like half my age or younger, and yeah, i think about exits a lot.
This is a superior solution, because it actially works and does not make me a target for that garbage gender’s bullshit.
If i compliment a man, it won’t stop hitting on me until i get violent or gross. I’m not even that pretty. Maybe a global 6/10, and i live in souyhern california, so I’m a local 3.
If a man sees me smile it might decide that was flirting, so i only smile in cases where it’s very very clearly not. Then I’ll have to lose it before anything bad happens, do things like hop off a bus just before the doors close (dick move to the driver), climb something (I’m not young, do like nice clothes), or do a ‘frogger’ larp, which is only about half as dangerpus as letting it follow me home¹.
And i absolutely don’t date them; im not cursed to have no other option sexually, so why the fuck would i defile myself with that one?
The exits thing is mixed with other stuff, various ptsd sources, but i expect I’d have put it together just existing around so many monsters like that.
¹which is wild. Again; im not particularly beautiful. About half of all houses contain a woman. This should not be a danger, and yet i regularly need to get all cloak and dagger to deal with almost half the population! Because of course none of them understand “no”! Not when a woman says it!
To each other. For safety. On the premise that not all men are creepy rapey shit heads, most of that is done by just a few predatory assholes, and you can just cut out the bad ones.
Which, lol.
Edit: next time you want a woman to not assume you’re a creep, ask how she’d know. This isn’t the solution id choose, but it was a solution. Ask if you’re really worth rolling a 6 sided dice every time youre alone with a guy, abd on a 2 or a 3 being treated so disgustingly you need a shower, on a 1 being raped or murdered. I’m sorry, but you aren’t worth that.
How else would someone know you are a creep? the only way is to doxx them. Its the only way, there is no other way.
Sex offender registry.
Surveillance by default never acceptable, not for “protection” of children, not for “protection” of women.
The vast majority of rapists are never even convicted, let alone end up on the registry.
https://reddthat.com/comment/20494109
The women who go on there clearly do it not out of spite for men but because the system is clearly not sufficiently ensuring their safety. I’m not saying it’s a good solution but idk why the internet is so enthusiastic about women who likely had bad experiences (including r*pe) being doxxed and calling it karma…
Not say sex offender registry is enough, only that other way and already exist. Need someone get rape, then report to police and win trial until in registry (if i understand correct). Far too high bar, much mental health required, need talk about what happen, not easy.
People who doxx getting doxx is ironic.
Lemmy at least has a misogyny problem and is openly hostile to women. I don’t know how common that is to the Internet itself these days but it doesn’t seem like a good sign, even once you accept that Lemmy specifically recruited Redditors.
I’ve been noticing more of this recently and it doesn’t encourage me to spend too much time here. There are so many posts that I don’t even open the comment section because I know it’s going to be a disaster and make me feel like I’m intruding on the boys’ online clubhouse.
This case is odd. It’s not some authority; it’s a comnunity sharing information for theur own protection, a formalized gossip network of threat identification.
Not a perfect solution, not how I’d hanfle it, but the alternative is just assuming every man is a piece of shit.
Edit: which i assume most of you want to hide.
If bad experience so common that community exist, maybe that not bad solution. Always take second person to date, always take self defense thing, etc.
Men not known as creep before date by someone in community or maybe friend. Always take precaution could protect against creep even if unknown man.
I just dont date men, don’t smile around men unless it’s mean or im wearing a mask, don’t compliment men even on innocuous things unless they’re like half my age or younger, and yeah, i think about exits a lot.
This is a superior solution, because it actially works and does not make me a target for that garbage gender’s bullshit.
This sarcasm? Kind of sound like sarcasm, but remind me of many women i know.
Nope. It’s how i deal.
If i compliment a man, it won’t stop hitting on me until i get violent or gross. I’m not even that pretty. Maybe a global 6/10, and i live in souyhern california, so I’m a local 3.
If a man sees me smile it might decide that was flirting, so i only smile in cases where it’s very very clearly not. Then I’ll have to lose it before anything bad happens, do things like hop off a bus just before the doors close (dick move to the driver), climb something (I’m not young, do like nice clothes), or do a ‘frogger’ larp, which is only about half as dangerpus as letting it follow me home¹.
And i absolutely don’t date them; im not cursed to have no other option sexually, so why the fuck would i defile myself with that one?
The exits thing is mixed with other stuff, various ptsd sources, but i expect I’d have put it together just existing around so many monsters like that.
¹which is wild. Again; im not particularly beautiful. About half of all houses contain a woman. This should not be a danger, and yet i regularly need to get all cloak and dagger to deal with almost half the population! Because of course none of them understand “no”! Not when a woman says it!
Thank you for clarifying.
Doxx them by publishing drivers licenses with legal name, address, and DOB to the whole internet.
Or by linking to their public tinder or Facebook profile and saying I had X bad experience, fair warning to anyone dating person, to a small userbase.
If you think that’s the same then you need a reality check.
What’s your solution to IDing creeps?
They weren’t doxxing you holy fuck men are fragile.