• cub Gucci@lemmy.today
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    That’s actually the main concern I took after observing the files. Like I thought maybe they all just want to leave a white world for white kids or some other sick fantasy, but no: they all want to transgress themselves everywhere by living forever and having as many children as they can.

  • HollowNaught@lemmy.world
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    13 hours ago

    Literally had my dad tell me that people only ever voted for themselves

    While I can accept that a lot of people do that, the implication that he doesn’t vote with at least some thought about his children or wife was a little worrying

    Similarly, he’s also said that climate change won’t affect us in our lifetime. This might be (somewhat) true for him, but for me?

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      if you are alive Feb 8, 2026, climate change is already impacting you drastically. saying otherwise requires ignorance. and i mean that in the original sense. not just never being shown the evidence. the willful choice to ignore that which is above and in front of you every single day

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        8 hours ago

        What I mean when I say he’s a little correct is that it’s feasible to ignore most of the effects up till now and assume it’ll continue as it is currently

        It’s incredibly ignorant and incorrect, but it’s probably not going to get to the point where we all die before he does first

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          He probably thinks it isn’t real, rather than “it is not affecting me right now, but will probably be unmanageable in 20 years”

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    14 hours ago

    Also seem to be the ones most insistent on pushing young people to have children…

    How can you have children and not be concerned about the world you’re creating for them?

    • NιƙƙιDιɱҽʂ@lemmy.world
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      So many people seem to completely believe they aren’t going to die someday. I get that it’s scary, but the cognitive dissonance is impressive.

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    16 hours ago

    We live in a democracy. Making people vote against their interest and their future and for the benefit of the people in power is what people in power do. But it takes embarrassingly little to buy the votes of the people.

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      A democracy ideally should have checks against buying voters, not that these are effective maybe anywhere in the world, but I would hate to be a doomer and think this is something that can’t be fixed.

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    I recently found out about the Long Now Foundation, glad to see there’s someone saying it out loud. We need to go back to thinking about our descendants in order to make a better humanity! We’ve tried the “more profit now” method for a while now, and I think most people will agree it has proven itself to not be a healthy, sustainable way to manage our lives and planet. I would really love to make a pilgrimage to the 10,000 year clock, seems like an amazing experience… if it wasn’t in the US.

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    I’ve noticed even with parents to children now there is no hope for them. I’m someone who grew up in poverty, and I expect nothing from my parents at all (they have nothing). However, even affluent parents are leaving less to their kids now. Which, I’m actually okay with individually (I worked hard, I’m not going to give you a free ride and spoil you).

    What makes me sad is when I see parents holding inheritance as ransom over their children. If you want to live a different life than they approve? Inheritance revoked. You want a different major than they approve of, or don’t have the same political views? No inheritance. Only had 1 grandchild instead of 3? No inheritance.

    That’s such selfish weird behavior in my book. It’s not “I earned this, I want to use it for my retirement”, it’s not “I don’t want to spoil you” or to give it to charity, so I don’t want to give that impression. It’s the “I want to dangle the ladder in front of you before pulling it up”. I don’t know if I’m describing my feelings well but it bothers me a lot, and I think it’s 1000% selfish

    • WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today
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      Yes, mist humans are MONSTERS, total monsters. There’s no reason to expect anything good of them, to depend on them, to trust them.

      Start working on getting away from their control, and making the little positive difference you can.

      But it won’t come from humans.

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    Combination of looking primarily at your own progeny, not on aggregate, and focusing on your next generation doing relatively better – and of a significant uptick in people without kids. The second is a bit of an extension of that first one really, as its looking at their own situation and saying “Welp, no next generation anyhow, may aswell burn some fossil fuels and enjoy myself while I’m here”.

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        The presence of outliers doesn’t really change the general point.

        Plus, from my pov at least, the choice to have kids isn’t one that’s actually ‘made’ until there’s the realistic opportunity to have kids based on your socio-economic background and expectations – obviously, not withstanding “happy accidents” etc. So if someone is educated / normalised in a north american / western democratic upbringing, with an expectation that you should be able to provide a basic quality of life for kids before having them, and readily available birth control to allow couples to dictate when it happens, then you first need to reach a point of financial freedom before you can make a ‘real’ choice on the subject. That typically comes down to a highly stable middle-class income/life style, which few achieve, and fewer achieve at young ages where historically the ‘choice’ to have kids gets declared.

        To use myself as an example to elaborate: when I was young, I didn’t have stability in my employment/income, though I did have one or two partners during that time who would’ve likely been willing to have kids if we had financial security (those two being women who were unemployed/hoping to be stay at home moms, which doesn’t really ‘work’ unless the guy makes serious money – need that dual income if you’re just a middle class earner – my lack of a high enough income to provide a middle class lifestyle for a group of dependents was the reason for one of those breakups even). Later on in life, now that I have more financial security, the women I’ve typically dated aren’t interested in having kids – most have established careers that they don’t want to interrupt, or are divorcees who already have kids. I’m not someone comfortable/capable of dating much outside my age range, so as I near the age it becomes unsafe for women to have kids, that windows basically closes. As a guy, I don’t feel like I’ve ever actually made a “choice” on the subject, as I’ve never been in a position where I could choose yes or no. Anyone who claims to be making a ‘choice’ based on gaps/deficiencies in their situation at that time, I’d argue, aren’t making a choice purely on their desire to have kids or not.

        Point of that schpiel in part being that, while I recognise outliers exist (and don’t skew the initial general statement), I’d also wager that a number of people identifying as “choosing not to have kids”, may be making that call not based on their desire to have children/a next generation, but rather on their personal circumstances excluding them from having that choice. It’s a lot like someone saying “I choose not to buy a $10 million car”… you ain’t really making a choice, unless you have $10 million sitting around that you could use on a luxury purchase.

        I also think that as people in that category age, they tend to become more cynical towards sustainability and more inclined towards personal comforts. It’s easier to say “I’m eco conscious!” as a 25-30 year old, who’s still got time to ‘make a choice’ on kids, and bike to work/forgo a car etc – than it is to be a 60 year old, where there’s no choice left to make on kids, with arthritis, still tryin to avoid the car and instead use transit to cut emissions for commuting to work / getting groceries etc.

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    See if you make a ton of money, your kids will be better than the poor people, so you’ve left a better world for your children.

    Actual logic and I’ve seen it play out.

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      Correct. To them “empathy” extending beyond friends and family is a rediculous concept. They also don’t believe that anyone else could actually fall for caring about other people.

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    Dan Olson’s recent video on a silly meme that DHS posted and is being picked up by right wing crazies all over the world surfaced something that’s been absolutely floating on the top of my mind ever since I saw it.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c7WqVx9x89s

    They show a clip from Werner Herzog’s 2007 documentary Encounters at the End of the World (full film), where a little penguin starts inexplicably running away from the herd that’s heading to the sea, and running towards some distant mountains instead.

    The penguin isn’t just like wandering off to see some sick mountains because it’s never going to get there. There’s no food. There’s no shelter. There’s no security.

    The penguin is going to die.

    Immediately before the clip in the full documentary, Herzog asks a penguin expert if penguins can go insane.

    So, another thing that’s implicit underneath this is the recognition that Trump and his cronies are on a suicide mission. They do not believe in the future. They cannot conceptualize the world surviving the present. And so, theirs is an embrace of pure id, pillaging what future does exist to live out a revenge fantasy for no other reason than because they can. Their only policy is chaos and hatred because, where they’re going, they don’t need policies. The actual mountains, America the Great and its promised flourishing, don’t matter. It can remain a hazy shape on the horizon because no one headed there will live to see it. Their only goal is to take everything else with them on the way out into the ice to die.

    Now, maybe that’s just cope on my part. I too am human and need to rationalize the world as it exists [to] grapple with the future, but it would go a long way to explaining why modern right-wing propaganda is so grim and nihilistic, reticent to depict any coherent ideal, even an unrealistic, unobtainable one.

    Herzog intended for The Penguin to reflect on humanity. Encounters at the End of the World is an unabashedly anthropomorphic film about the stories that people read into nature in order to say something about ourselves.

    And, to that end, the United States Department of Homeland Security has looked at this penguin and said, “Yep, that’s us. We’re doing this for no reason. We have no hope of success. There is no meaning to this. You don’t need to ask us why because you’ve always known why.”

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    Just like with most things wrong in North America, you can be right more often than not if you just blame Reagan.

    It’s the result of hyper individualism fuelled by neoliberal policies that was spearheaded by Reagan, and I probably need to mention Thatcher as well.

    Remember “greed is good”? Well this is the result.

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    If anyone on Lemmy wants a financial answer to this question, which essentially what it boils down to given the society we’re in, I would recommend listening to the latest Weekly Show podcast episode with Jon Stewart interviewing the Nobel Prize winning economist Richard Thaler.

    He breaks down this exact mentality in a way that makes a lot of sense.

    https://youtu.be/rZczEzMu_U8

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      My very short summary: We hate losing something way more than we enjoy gaining something. That’s why governments prefer subsidies. They are perceived as gaining something, while taxes are perceived as losing something. They also talk about nudges versus shoves. Nudging people toward positive behavior works better, especially if you do it in a way that makes people feel like they have agency. But this makes it difficult to change behavior drastically (a shove), which Stewart argues is required with the challenges we’re facing because of climate change. Thaler replies that with the kind of people we have in power, allowing for drastic change will not yield the kind of change we need nor want.

      I think that’s what the conversation boils down to, for all the people who hate watching a long video for what could’ve been some clean text.

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        for all the people who hate watching a long video for what could’ve been some clean text.

        A argument could be made that this statement explains the “why” behind how we have so many people unwilling to understand things better. AI much?

        “lets just summarize the broad strokes.”

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          Dude, this is some random-ass post on social media. People who want the deep cut can do it, people who are mildly interested can read a summary and everybody else just ignores it.

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              Might not have been intended as a dig on the person you replied to, but if it had been me I’d take a lot of offense to your “AI much” comment

              • ORbituary@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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                Lordy, people are sensitive.

                The “AI much” is intended as commentary on society’s dependence on it these days.

                It’s exhausting to have to explain everything on the internet.

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                  Again, not sure what you want to accomplish by saying"people are sensitive", like, yes? Everyone has feelings.

                  I think there’s quite a big gap between what you want to communicate and how it comes across. Like, what you are saying might be really smart, but it doesn’t come across that way. So perhaps work on your communication skills, that way you don’t have to elaborate on what you meant in the first place.

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                  You are absolutely right! The problem is not you, in fact it is everyone else.

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      With some, that might be the problem. They expect their God to come kill everyone soon anyway (the way there has always been sects of Christians expecting the apocalpyse soon since Christianity was born), so why try to make the world better?

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    Good adult

    Most don’t even know how to behave like an adult. Majority of the government behave exactly like children, which makes this situation worse. They rather play pretend adult rather than actually try to be an adult.